{"id":43811,"date":"2024-05-22T21:50:26","date_gmt":"2024-05-23T01:50:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/?p=43811"},"modified":"2024-05-22T21:50:26","modified_gmt":"2024-05-23T01:50:26","slug":"review-of-have-a-beautiful-terrible-day-by-kate-bowler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/?p=43811","title":{"rendered":"Review of Have a Beautiful, Terrible Day! by Kate Bowler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/have_a_beautiful_terrible_day_large.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/have_a_beautiful_terrible_day_large.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"195\" height=\"250\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-43814\" \/><\/a><em>Have a Beautiful, Terrible Day!<\/p>\n<p>Daily Meditations for the Ups, Downs &#038; In-Betweens<\/em><\/p>\n<p>by Kate Bowler<\/p>\n<p>Convergent, 2024.  204 pages.<br \/>\nReview written May 22, 2024, from my own copy purchased via Amazon.com<br \/>\nStarred Review<\/p>\n<p>The title of this book perfectly encapsulates what&#8217;s so helpful about Kate Bowler&#8217;s writing.  She is able to wish you a good day and uplift you, even while acknowledging that terrible things happen.<\/p>\n<p>The content of the book is very like <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sonderbooks.com\/Nonfiction\/lives_we_actually_have.html\">The Lives We Actually Have: 100 Blessings for Imperfect Days<\/a><\/em> (with Jessica Ritchie).  It&#8217;s a little bit oversized, and each day&#8217;s meditation takes up a spread.  On the left half of the spread, we&#8217;ve got a Bible verse on the side and some thoughts about the situation where you might find yourself.  On the right side, there&#8217;s a prayer for when you&#8217;re in that situation, followed by a short reflection prompt.<\/p>\n<p>As an example, here&#8217;s the text on the left side of the first meditation, &#8220;when everything is out of control&#8221;:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>There is something people say when you are in a lot of pain or trouble or life is out of control.  They say: &#8220;All you can control is your reaction.&#8221;  And, sure, that&#8217;s often good advice.  We can try to reduce the scale of our problem-solving to a small, manageable step.  But I don&#8217;t want you to have to skip that first true thing you are allowed to say:  &#8220;I have lost control.  This is happening <em>to<\/em> me.&#8221;  This blessing is for when you need to say, &#8220;God, this is out of control.  People keep telling me that I have control over this, but I really don&#8217;t.  I need help.&#8221;  Read or pray this meditation aloud if you need some divine rescue plan and some acknowledgment of that reality.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And the prayer on the facing page finishes up like this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>You are there, somewhere out there,<br \/>\nthough I can hardly feel it.<br \/>\nSend an angel, send a fleet, send them now.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Like the other book, I found the meditations in this book encouraging and uplifting.  They gave me words to pray that I might not have thought of on my own, but that did help bring me near to God and remember that God is listening.<\/p>\n<p>This book has a section for Lent and a section for Advent, but the funny thing about that is that they miss a whole week of Lent!  The 40 days of Lent on the calendar do not count Sundays.  If you check a calendar, there are not a simple six weeks to Lent, because it starts on Wednesday and ends on Easter Sunday.  There are, in fact, six Sundays during Lent &#8212; but that does <em>not<\/em> count Easter Sunday.  The sixth Sunday of Lent is Palm Sunday.  In this book, Palm Sunday is listed as the fifth Sunday of Lent, which doesn&#8217;t fit the calendar.  I went back and checked &#8212; she only has 35 meditations during Lent, plus four Sundays set aside for rest.  Missing the last week.<\/p>\n<p>However, I just went back and did one of the earlier weeks during that week.  The book is still a wonderful book of prayers, but that was a funny little glitch that the mathematician in me can&#8217;t bear to not point out.  (Sorry!)<\/p>\n<p>All that said, I love the way Kate Bowler models turning to God when things are difficult.  Going through one of these prayers each day makes a wonderful morning routine.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/katebowler.com\/\">katebowler.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/0593727673\/sonderbooksco-20\" target=\"outside\" rel=\"noopener\">Buy from Amazon.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Find this review on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sonderbooks.com\">Sonderbooks<\/a> at: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sonderbooks.com\/Nonfiction\/have_a_beautiful_terrible_day.html\">www.sonderbooks.com\/Nonfiction\/have_a_beautiful_terrible_day.html<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Disclosure: I am an Amazon Affiliate, and will earn a small percentage if you order a book on Amazon after clicking through from my site.<\/p>\n<p>Disclaimer:  I am a professional librarian, but the views expressed are solely my own, and in no way represent the official views of my employer or of any committee or group of which I am part.<\/p>\n<p>What did you think of this book?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have a Beautiful, Terrible Day! 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