{"id":47093,"date":"2026-10-12T22:56:01","date_gmt":"2026-10-13T02:56:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/?p=47093"},"modified":"2026-10-12T23:02:12","modified_gmt":"2026-10-13T03:02:12","slug":"sonderbooks25-2009-coming-into-my-own","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/?p=47093","title":{"rendered":"#Sonderbooks25 &#8211; 2009 &#8211; Coming into My Own"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/guernsey_literary.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/guernsey_literary.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"138\" height=\"208\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-47094\" \/><\/a>I&#8217;ve been celebrating <a href=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/?cat=426\">#Sonderbooks25<\/a> &#8211; 25 years of writing Sonderbooks &#8211; for quite some time now.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s my own fault.  My original idea was to choose one book to reread from each year&#8217;s Sonderbooks Stand-outs.  That led to revising the Stand-outs page to fit the new phone-friendly format.  That led to rereading each review of the Stand-outs.  That led to deciding to reread all the reviews I&#8217;d written, beginning in 2001.  That led to wanting to reread a lot more than one book per year.  Once I got to the years I added blogs, it also led to rereading all my <a href=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/?cat=426\">Sonderquotes<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderjourneys\/\">Sonderjourneys<\/a> posts.  And I&#8217;d already been reading the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sonderbooks.com\/My_Story\/\">Project 52<\/a> posts about the years I was writing Sonderbooks.<\/p>\n<p>So &#8211; things have gotten out of hand!  But the truth is, I&#8217;m having a lot of fun revisiting my old writings and wonderful books I&#8217;d recommended.  I will probably stop calling it #Sonderbooks25 when I hit my 26th anniversary next August, but whether I&#8217;ve finished or not (I hope I will have!), I will probably want to keep going, because this is a treat.<\/p>\n<p>So now for my report on 2009 with its fresh <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sonderbooks.com\/Standouts2009.html\">Sonderbooks Stand-outs<\/a> page.<\/p>\n<p>This time, I really did reread one of the books before I posted this &#8211; <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sonderbooks.com\/Fiction\/guernsey_literary.html\">The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society<\/a><\/em>, and it was every bit as wonderful as I&#8217;d remembered.  I&#8217;ve also been rereading some of the books from earlier Stand-outs, like <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sonderbooks.com\/Fiction\/enchantment.html\">Enchantment<\/a><\/em>, by Orson Scott Card, from 2007, and I enjoyed both of those so much &#8211; in audio form this time &#8211; that I&#8217;m tempted not to place holds for any new audiobooks and just keep rereading.<\/p>\n<p>But I think the biggest treat when revisiting 2009 was remembering what I was going through.  The <a href=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?m=200901\">Sonderquotes posts from that year<\/a> were about letting go, forgiveness, and finding joy.  <a href=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderjourneys\/?m=200901\">Sonderjourneys posts<\/a> reminded me that things were not going well with my husband.  He continued to tell me I was a horrible person, and negotiations about a divorce settlement were not going well.  I was slowly coming to terms with the idea that it would be okay &#8211; maybe a good thing &#8211; to file for divorce myself.<\/p>\n<p>And at the same time, I was indeed coming into my own!  2009 was my first full year working as a full-fledged librarian, and I was loving it.  2009 was when I discovered other kidlit blogs and did my first <a href=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/?p=477\">48-Hour Book Challenge<\/a> and attended <a href=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/?p=832\">my first KidLitCon<\/a>.  Also, my obsession with the Newbery Medal had started, and <a href=\"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/blog\/?p=896\">I took an online class about it<\/a>.  I applied to attend the Morris seminar and to be a CYBILS judge and did not get either one, but did not give up.  I was completely loving having found my calling as a librarian.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, budget cuts were looming &#8211; but they didn&#8217;t hit my job until 2010.  I hadn&#8217;t realized until I reread these blogs that this was the year my father had his first heart attack <em>and<\/em> my mother got her first dementia diagnosis (at only 68 years old).  (They passed away within two months of each other ten years later, my father from a heart attack, my mother from Alzheimer&#8217;s.)<\/p>\n<p>But most of the posts are about learning to live on my own as a single mom (with one kid at home in 9th grade) and as a librarian.  My sense looking back is that life had opened up and I was thriving.<\/p>\n<p>And my goodness, I read some wonderful books!  As I read the reviews I jotted down way too many that I&#8217;d like to reread.  Instead of listing them all out, let me encourage you to take a look at the list of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sonderbooks.com\/Standouts2009.html\">2009 Sonderbooks Stand-outs<\/a>.  Read some reviews and see what calls out to you!  It turns out that for the most part, good books are still good books.<\/p>\n<p>Happy Reading!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been celebrating #Sonderbooks25 &#8211; 25 years of writing Sonderbooks &#8211; for quite some time now. It&#8217;s my own fault. My original idea was to choose one book to reread from each year&#8217;s Sonderbooks Stand-outs. That led to revising the Stand-outs page to fit the new phone-friendly format. 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