{"id":181,"date":"2015-12-15T09:51:12","date_gmt":"2015-12-15T13:51:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/?p=181"},"modified":"2015-12-15T10:03:00","modified_gmt":"2015-12-15T14:03:00","slug":"58-my-mom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/?p=181","title":{"rendered":"58. My Mom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This year I was a judge for the Cybils Awards, in the category of Fiction Picture Books.\u00a0 Publishers sent me many picture books to consider (the ones my library didn&#8217;t have).<\/p>\n<p>The majority of those are going to the library.\u00a0 But I selected the best to send to my two toddler nieces &#8212; and to my Mom.\u00a0 My Mom has Alzheimer&#8217;s.\u00a0 My sister, who helps my Dad care for her, requested board books or very simple picture books for Mom.\u00a0 Apparently she can still read those.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not sure the ones I sent are simple enough.\u00a0 But I hope so.\u00a0 I hope they will bring her some joy.<\/p>\n<p>And that got me reflecting.<\/p>\n<p>My Mom was the one who taught me to read.\u00a0 Long before teachers got hold of me.\u00a0 (I can still remember when I could read\u00a0a particular set of\u00a0word cards she&#8217;d made for me.\u00a0 And her delight.\u00a0 One of the words was <em>yellow.<\/em>)<\/p>\n<p>My Mom was the one who taught me, by example, to read aloud to small children with expression, with joy, and with love.<\/p>\n<p>I am sure I still slip into her cadences when reading aloud to children at the library.<\/p>\n<p>It was my Mom&#8217;s idea to have all her kids take naps for an hour every day\u00a0&#8212; but we could read during that time; we didn&#8217;t have to sleep.\u00a0 Thus she got me in the habit of reading for at least an hour each day.<\/p>\n<p>My Mom always wrote in each book she read the date she finished reading it.\u00a0 (At least books she owned!)\u00a0 Whenever she gave a book, she wrote to the giftee in the front, and insisted we do the same when we gave books to her.\u00a0 So each book chosen last night was inscribed to her.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, parents can instill a love of reading in their kids.\u00a0 My Mom sure did!<\/p>\n<p>And now, I hope that reading these simple, lovely\u00a0books I&#8217;m sending will give her some joy.<\/p>\n<p>And I have to also say that I&#8217;m so thankful for my Dad, who takes tender loving care of her, even though she&#8217;s definitely not the woman he married any longer.\u00a0 And I&#8217;m thankful for my sister who lives there and helps.<\/p>\n<p>Merry Christmas, Mom!\u00a0 Thank you for the positive way you shaped my life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This year I was a judge for the Cybils Awards, in the category of Fiction Picture Books.\u00a0 Publishers sent me many picture books to consider (the ones my library didn&#8217;t have). The majority of those are going to the library.\u00a0 But I selected the best to send to my two toddler nieces &#8212; and to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/181"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=181"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/181\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":184,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/181\/revisions\/184"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=181"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=181"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=181"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}