{"id":191,"date":"2015-12-18T15:28:38","date_gmt":"2015-12-18T19:28:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/?p=191"},"modified":"2015-12-18T15:28:38","modified_gmt":"2015-12-18T19:28:38","slug":"60-a-happy-family-to-miss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/?p=191","title":{"rendered":"60. A Happy Family to Miss"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My youngest son just finished college, so I&#8217;ve been having some Empty Nest Blues.<\/p>\n<p>This is on top of being divorced, so it hits a little hard that my nest is well and truly empty.<\/p>\n<p>However &#8212; Even if I were still married &#8212; kids grow up.\u00a0 This is a <em>good<\/em> thing!<\/p>\n<p>I am incredibly proud of both my kids.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I look back fondly on those wonderful times when they were toddlers and young kids, soaking up learning.\u00a0 We got to be a young family living in Europe.\u00a0 We got to visit castles, go hiking regularly on our &#8220;mountain,&#8221; play games together, see sights of Europe.\u00a0 Although my marriage ended badly, I have experienced being loved by a spouse deeply and truly. \u00a0(For awhile, anyway!)<\/p>\n<p>We weren&#8217;t perfect young parents, and every moment was definitely not idyllic.\u00a0 But we had some tremendously happy times together &#8212; and I think my kids are among the most wonderful people God has ever created.\u00a0 I&#8217;m so glad their youth was entrusted into my care.<\/p>\n<p>So yes, even if I were still happily married, this day would still have come.\u00a0 My kids are launching out into the world, and I&#8217;m so proud of them!<\/p>\n<p>And I miss them &#8212; and I&#8217;m glad I do.\u00a0 And I&#8217;m thankful for precious memories, which I will always cherish.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My youngest son just finished college, so I&#8217;ve been having some Empty Nest Blues. This is on top of being divorced, so it hits a little hard that my nest is well and truly empty. However &#8212; Even if I were still married &#8212; kids grow up.\u00a0 This is a good thing! I am incredibly [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/191"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=191"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/191\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":192,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/191\/revisions\/192"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=191"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=191"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}