{"id":386,"date":"2016-08-06T22:16:13","date_gmt":"2016-08-07T02:16:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/?p=386"},"modified":"2016-08-06T22:16:13","modified_gmt":"2016-08-07T02:16:13","slug":"108-ten-years-my-son-and-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/?p=386","title":{"rendered":"108. Ten years &#8212; my son and me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My heart is full tonight.\u00a0 Tomorrow my youngest son, at 22 years old, is moving to Portland, Oregon, to look for a job.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s also 10 years since we left Germany, and moved to Virginia, and stopped living anywhere near my ex-husband, though the divorce didn&#8217;t happen until 4 years after that.<\/p>\n<p>My oldest child went off to college right after we moved to Virginia, and never really came back.<\/p>\n<p>So for ten years, it&#8217;s pretty much been Tim and me.\u00a0 Yes, I had lots of practice being without him\u00a0&#8212; his times with his Dad and of course going off to college.\u00a0 But this move is much more permanent.<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;ve raised a very fine young man.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s smart.\u00a0 He&#8217;s kind.\u00a0 He&#8217;s self-aware and emotionally intelligent.\u00a0 He&#8217;s an independent thinker who has a lot of empathy.\u00a0 He&#8217;s a creative thinker.\u00a0 He&#8217;s an introvert &#8212; which makes him a great person for another introvert to live with.<\/p>\n<p>So I&#8217;m going to miss him &#8212; hugely.<\/p>\n<p>But how tremendously blessed I have been these past ten years to have someone I love living with me.\u00a0 What a privilege it&#8217;s been to watch him grow up!<\/p>\n<p>Sigh.\u00a0 It&#8217;s going to be great to watch him fly!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My heart is full tonight.\u00a0 Tomorrow my youngest son, at 22 years old, is moving to Portland, Oregon, to look for a job. It&#8217;s also 10 years since we left Germany, and moved to Virginia, and stopped living anywhere near my ex-husband, though the divorce didn&#8217;t happen until 4 years after that. My oldest child [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/386"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=386"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/386\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":387,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/386\/revisions\/387"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=386"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=386"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=386"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}