{"id":529,"date":"2017-03-10T21:23:07","date_gmt":"2017-03-11T01:23:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/?p=529"},"modified":"2017-03-10T21:23:07","modified_gmt":"2017-03-11T01:23:07","slug":"152-victory-over-verbal-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/?p=529","title":{"rendered":"152. Victory Over Verbal Abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve gotten out of the habit of posting these and am trying to start up again.  It always makes it hard to restart, because I feel like the next blessing has to be something momentous.  So I will just take the small blessing that just happened.<\/p>\n<p>Because of a couple different conversations (both bad and good), I was reminded of Patricia Evans&#8217; book, <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sonderbooks.com\/Nonfiction\/victory_over_verbal_abuse.html\">Victory Over Verbal Abuse<\/a><\/em>.  I took it out and was reviewing the concepts.  I&#8217;d completely forgotten about the affirmations in the back.  But tonight I started in on them again &#8212; and they are healing!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve come a long way, I feel very healed, very transformed.  But the affirmations are still such nice reminders!  The first one is, &#8220;I am self-defining.&#8221;  No one else has the right to tell me who I am.  How lovely that I&#8217;m now in a place where few even try.  And I get to define myself and listen to what God says about me, His loved child.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve gotten out of the habit of posting these and am trying to start up again. It always makes it hard to restart, because I feel like the next blessing has to be something momentous. So I will just take the small blessing that just happened. Because of a couple different conversations (both bad and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=529"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":530,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529\/revisions\/530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=529"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=529"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderblessings\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=529"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}