{"id":155,"date":"2007-10-22T16:56:19","date_gmt":"2007-10-22T20:56:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2007\/10\/22\/cooperation\/"},"modified":"2007-10-22T16:56:19","modified_gmt":"2007-10-22T20:56:19","slug":"cooperation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=155","title":{"rendered":"Cooperation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;You do not want &#8216;obedience&#8217; in your home, you want <em>cooperation.<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0 When people feel valued, they cooperate.\u00c2\u00a0 When they don&#8217;t feel valued, they resist what feels to them like <em>submission.<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0 The keys to resentment-free cooperation are making <strong>behavior requests<\/strong>, instead of demands and, above all, <strong>tolerance<\/strong> of differences.<\/p>\n<p>When a partner gives in to a demand, he&#8217;ll be resentful.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Steven Stosny, Compassion Power Boot Camp<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;You do not want &#8216;obedience&#8217; in your home, you want cooperation.\u00c2\u00a0 When people feel valued, they cooperate.\u00c2\u00a0 When they don&#8217;t feel valued, they resist what feels to them like submission.\u00c2\u00a0 The keys to resentment-free cooperation are making behavior requests, instead of demands and, above all, tolerance of differences. When a partner gives in to a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,25,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-155","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-compassion","category-core-value","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=155"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=155"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=155"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=155"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}