{"id":2795,"date":"2012-09-01T20:17:18","date_gmt":"2012-09-02T00:17:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=2795"},"modified":"2012-09-01T20:20:39","modified_gmt":"2012-09-02T00:20:39","slug":"civility-dignity-and-respect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=2795","title":{"rendered":"Civility, Dignity, and Respect"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Each of us has a different story.  Not everyone needs to leave her partner.  We don&#8217;t want to abandon people who need help.  Your answer might not be to get out &#8212; only you know what&#8217;s right in your situation.  And my purpose isn&#8217;t to demonize people who are abusive.  They&#8217;re wounded and hurting in their own way.  But please hear this:  until someone is healthy enough to treat you with civility, dignity, and respect, that person isn&#8217;t healthy enough to be in your life.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Christi Paul, <em>Love Isn&#8217;t Supposed to Hurt<\/em>, p. 255<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Each of us has a different story. Not everyone needs to leave her partner. We don&#8217;t want to abandon people who need help. Your answer might not be to get out &#8212; only you know what&#8217;s right in your situation. And my purpose isn&#8217;t to demonize people who are abusive. They&#8217;re wounded and hurting in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35,21,19,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2795","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-growth","category-healing","category-letting-go","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2795","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2795"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2795\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2795"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2795"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2795"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}