{"id":294,"date":"2008-01-09T22:38:50","date_gmt":"2008-01-10T02:38:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2008\/01\/09\/truth\/"},"modified":"2008-01-09T22:38:50","modified_gmt":"2008-01-10T02:38:50","slug":"truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=294","title":{"rendered":"Truth"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, you have to ask yourself what you <em>really <\/em>think, and go with that deep perception.\u00c2\u00a0 If you find out you&#8217;re wrong, admit it and correct your error.\u00c2\u00a0 If you find out you were right, congratulate yourself and move on.\u00c2\u00a0 Either way, your starting point needs to be <em>your <\/em>sense of what&#8217;s true, not your gaslighter&#8217;s.\u00c2\u00a0 If you&#8217;ve idealized your gaslighter and want to think well of him, you may be tempted to substitute his version of events for yours.\u00c2\u00a0 But don&#8217;t.\u00c2\u00a0 That&#8217;s how you start dancing the Gaslight Tango.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Dr. Robin Stern, <em>The Gaslight Effect, <\/em>p. 174<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, you have to ask yourself what you really think, and go with that deep perception.\u00c2\u00a0 If you find out you&#8217;re wrong, admit it and correct your error.\u00c2\u00a0 If you find out you were right, congratulate yourself and move on.\u00c2\u00a0 Either way, your starting point needs to be your sense of what&#8217;s true, not your [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25,27,23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-294","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-core-value","category-relationships","category-truth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/294","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=294"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/294\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=294"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=294"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=294"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}