{"id":322,"date":"2008-01-18T15:01:39","date_gmt":"2008-01-18T19:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2008\/01\/18\/relationship-failure\/"},"modified":"2008-01-18T15:01:39","modified_gmt":"2008-01-18T19:01:39","slug":"relationship-failure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=322","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Failure?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Perhaps the greatest relationship failure we can have is invalidating our relationship history or present circumstances by becoming cynical, hopeless, embittered, or ashamed.\u00c2\u00a0 Our histories aren&#8217;t a mistake.\u00c2\u00a0 Our present circumstances aren&#8217;t a mistake.\u00c2\u00a0 We may have made choices that need correcting.\u00c2\u00a0 We may want to make new decisions as we grow.\u00c2\u00a0 We may discover patterns that need unraveling.\u00c2\u00a0 But we can learn and gain from each relationship we&#8217;ve encountered.\u00c2\u00a0 Our relationships are a reflection of our growth, and often our relationships have contributed to that growth.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Melody Beattie, <em>Beyond Codependency, <\/em>p. 148<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Perhaps the greatest relationship failure we can have is invalidating our relationship history or present circumstances by becoming cynical, hopeless, embittered, or ashamed.\u00c2\u00a0 Our histories aren&#8217;t a mistake.\u00c2\u00a0 Our present circumstances aren&#8217;t a mistake.\u00c2\u00a0 We may have made choices that need correcting.\u00c2\u00a0 We may want to make new decisions as we grow.\u00c2\u00a0 We may discover [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-322","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-healing","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=322"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/322\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}