Think about it.\u00c2\u00a0 The centrality of commitment in relationships is expressed through the marriage vows, which ask us to love our partners through richer and poorer, in sickness and in health, and for better and for worse until death.\u00c2\u00a0 That means that we promise to love them when they are not doing well, when they have failed, when life is not exactly turning out as hoped, or when we’re going through a financial reversal.\u00c2\u00a0 What I see in the marriage vows is a basic prescription:\u00c2\u00a0 if we want our relationships to last, we better be prepared to forgive.\u00c2\u00a0 The vows make it clear that over the life of a marriage we will experience difficulty and pain and that it is our responsibility to stay connected to our partners.\u00c2\u00a0 How could we possibly do this without forgiveness?\u00c2\u00a0 What other form of healing would clean the slate and give us fresh eyes and an open heart?<\/p>\n
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