{"id":3475,"date":"2013-09-13T20:58:53","date_gmt":"2013-09-14T00:58:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=3475"},"modified":"2013-09-13T21:00:29","modified_gmt":"2013-09-14T01:00:29","slug":"healing-and-power","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=3475","title":{"rendered":"Healing and Power"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It may seem patently unfair that the injured party in an intimate betrayal has to take responsibility for her personal healing.  That&#8217;s because healing has nothing to do with fairness; it has to do with power.  Where blame renders us powerless, responsibility empowers us.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Steven Stosny, <em>Living and Loving After Betrayal<\/em>, p. 41<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It may seem patently unfair that the injured party in an intimate betrayal has to take responsibility for her personal healing. That&#8217;s because healing has nothing to do with fairness; it has to do with power. Where blame renders us powerless, responsibility empowers us. &#8212; Steven Stosny, Living and Loving After Betrayal, p. 41<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3475","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-healing","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3475","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3475"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3475\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3475"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3475"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3475"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}