{"id":376,"date":"2008-02-18T21:18:26","date_gmt":"2008-02-19T01:18:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2008\/02\/18\/new-thinking\/"},"modified":"2026-08-18T23:30:19","modified_gmt":"2026-08-19T03:30:19","slug":"new-thinking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=376","title":{"rendered":"New Thinking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I want to waste as little of my life as possible in the pain caused by anger and hurt.\u00a0 I want to react well when things do not go the way I want in my marriage.\u00a0 This decision will allow me to forgive myself, forgive my partner, and even forgive life itself when necessary&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Dealing with relationships is a challenge.\u00a0 I want to be a survivor and not a victim.\u00a0 Each hurtful situation challenges my determination to live as fully and lovingly as possible.\u00a0 I accept the challenges that life sends my way.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Dr. Fred Luskin, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sonderbooks.com\/Nonfiction\/forgive_for_love.html\">Forgive for Love<\/a>, <\/em>p. 64<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I want to waste as little of my life as possible in the pain caused by anger and hurt.\u00a0 I want to react well when things do not go the way I want in my marriage.\u00a0 This decision will allow me to forgive myself, forgive my partner, and even forgive life itself when necessary&#8230;. Dealing [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-376","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-forgiveness","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/376","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=376"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/376\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10207,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/376\/revisions\/10207"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=376"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=376"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=376"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}