{"id":398,"date":"2008-03-02T19:32:30","date_gmt":"2008-03-02T23:32:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2008\/03\/02\/recognize-that-everyone-is-flawed-including-you\/"},"modified":"2008-03-02T19:32:30","modified_gmt":"2008-03-02T23:32:30","slug":"recognize-that-everyone-is-flawed-including-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=398","title":{"rendered":"Recognize That Everyone Is Flawed . . . Including You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The next step in this process is to honor without resentment the flawed nature of the human being with whom you share your life.\u00c2\u00a0 By\u00c2\u00a0definition, you are with someone who has significant limitations.\u00c2\u00a0 Unfortunately, you did not get in the line where they were offering saints, angels, personal saviors, or slaves.\u00c2\u00a0 You got in the line for a regular person, warts and all.\u00c2\u00a0 Learning to accept your partner&#8217;s limitations with tenderness is the next step of forgiveness and the opening to a true love.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Dr. Fred Luskin, <em>Forgive For Love, <\/em>p. 99<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The next step in this process is to honor without resentment the flawed nature of the human being with whom you share your life.\u00c2\u00a0 By\u00c2\u00a0definition, you are with someone who has significant limitations.\u00c2\u00a0 Unfortunately, you did not get in the line where they were offering saints, angels, personal saviors, or slaves.\u00c2\u00a0 You got in the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,14,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-forgiveness","category-marriage","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=398"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=398"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=398"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=398"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}