{"id":517,"date":"2008-06-06T22:18:49","date_gmt":"2008-06-07T02:18:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2008\/06\/06\/wishes\/"},"modified":"2008-06-06T22:18:49","modified_gmt":"2008-06-07T02:18:49","slug":"wishes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=517","title":{"rendered":"Wishes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When we forget that all we can really do is hope or wish for the results we want, we make things harder for ourselves.\u00c2\u00a0 When we forget that our ability to make our wishes come true is limited, we create grievances&#8230;.\u00c2\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Try to remember one thing:\u00c2\u00a0 You risk disappointment every time you want something from your partner.\u00c2\u00a0 So much of forgiveness training involves accepting this simple fact of life.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Dr. Fred Luskin, <em>Forgive for Love, <\/em>p. 180-182<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we forget that all we can really do is hope or wish for the results we want, we make things harder for ourselves.\u00c2\u00a0 When we forget that our ability to make our wishes come true is limited, we create grievances&#8230;.\u00c2\u00a0 Try to remember one thing:\u00c2\u00a0 You risk disappointment every time you want something from [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-517","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-forgiveness","category-marriage"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/517","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=517"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/517\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}