{"id":523,"date":"2008-06-10T21:58:30","date_gmt":"2008-06-11T01:58:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2008\/06\/10\/give-up-winning\/"},"modified":"2008-06-10T21:58:30","modified_gmt":"2008-06-11T01:58:30","slug":"give-up-winning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=523","title":{"rendered":"Give Up Winning"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Give up the notion that an argument can be won.\u00c2\u00a0 <\/em>People desperately want to win because prevailing and &#8220;winning&#8221; seem the only way out.\u00c2\u00a0 When you try to win each battle, nobody ever wins.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Ellyn Bader, PhD, and Peter T. Pearson, PhD, <em>Tell Me No Lies, <\/em>p. 140<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Give up the notion that an argument can be won.\u00c2\u00a0 People desperately want to win because prevailing and &#8220;winning&#8221; seem the only way out.\u00c2\u00a0 When you try to win each battle, nobody ever wins. &#8212; Ellyn Bader, PhD, and Peter T. Pearson, PhD, Tell Me No Lies, p. 140<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,14,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-523","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-letting-go","category-marriage","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/523","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=523"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/523\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=523"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=523"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=523"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}