{"id":558,"date":"2008-07-09T22:40:42","date_gmt":"2008-07-10T02:40:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2008\/07\/09\/set-yourself-free\/"},"modified":"2008-07-09T22:40:42","modified_gmt":"2008-07-10T02:40:42","slug":"set-yourself-free","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=558","title":{"rendered":"Set Yourself Free"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nothing clarifies boundaries more than forgiveness.\u00c2\u00a0 To forgive someone means to let him off the hook, or to cancel a debt he owes you.\u00c2\u00a0 When you refuse to forgive someone, you still want something from that person, and even if it is revenge that you want, it <em>keeps you tied to him forever.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend, <em>Boundaries, <\/em>p. 134<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nothing clarifies boundaries more than forgiveness.\u00c2\u00a0 To forgive someone means to let him off the hook, or to cancel a debt he owes you.\u00c2\u00a0 When you refuse to forgive someone, you still want something from that person, and even if it is revenge that you want, it keeps you tied to him forever. &#8212; Dr. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,21,19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-forgiveness","category-healing","category-letting-go"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/558","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=558"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/558\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=558"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=558"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=558"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}