{"id":633,"date":"2008-10-06T20:59:04","date_gmt":"2008-10-07T00:59:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2008\/10\/06\/when-life-kicks-us-in-the-stomach\/"},"modified":"2008-10-06T20:59:04","modified_gmt":"2008-10-07T00:59:04","slug":"when-life-kicks-us-in-the-stomach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=633","title":{"rendered":"When Life Kicks Us in the Stomach"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When life kicks us in the stomach, we want someone to be with us as we are, not as he or she wishes us to be.\u00c2\u00a0 We don&#8217;t want someone trying to make us feel better.\u00c2\u00a0 That effort, no matter how well intended, creates a pressure that adds to our distress.<\/p>\n<p>Why is it so difficult to simply give ourselves to each other when things are hard without yielding to the urge to give relief, to help, to try to make things better?<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Larry Crabb, <em>Shattered Dreams, <\/em>p. 123-124<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When life kicks us in the stomach, we want someone to be with us as we are, not as he or she wishes us to be.\u00c2\u00a0 We don&#8217;t want someone trying to make us feel better.\u00c2\u00a0 That effort, no matter how well intended, creates a pressure that adds to our distress. Why is it so [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-633","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships","category-trials"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/633","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=633"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/633\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=633"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=633"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=633"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}