{"id":659,"date":"2008-11-11T23:36:29","date_gmt":"2008-11-12T03:36:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2008\/11\/11\/changing-your-story\/"},"modified":"2008-11-11T23:36:29","modified_gmt":"2008-11-12T03:36:29","slug":"changing-your-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=659","title":{"rendered":"Changing Your Story"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Although we may be beginning to understand that our Story is just a Story and not the Truth, it still can feel a little risky to be tampering with it.\u00c2\u00a0 Adaptive beings that we are, we&#8217;ve figured out how to tolerate the limiting story.\u00c2\u00a0 We know our way around that territory, and we know what to expect from it.\u00c2\u00a0 When we open ourselves up to a new possibility, a new Story, we often fear we&#8217;re opening ourselves up to false hope.\u00c2\u00a0 What if nothing changes?\u00c2\u00a0 Then we will have to face disappointment which we could have avoided by sticking with the old Story.\u00c2\u00a0 I agree that it&#8217;s risky.\u00c2\u00a0 It takes courage to move toward what you want, to come out of the cultural trance and wholeheartedly go after what matters to you. . . .<\/p>\n<p>When we orient our lives around what we most care about, we see new <em>ways of being <\/em>that we were blind to when we were focused on eradicating the problem.\u00c2\u00a0 I invite you to refrain from attending to <em>something that needs to be fixed.\u00c2\u00a0 <\/em>Instead, try looking at what you care about and what you really want.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line:\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s All Story.\u00c2\u00a0 Abundance is a Story.\u00c2\u00a0 Scarcity is a Story.\u00c2\u00a0 Yes, there are facts supporting both of them, but remember that it isn&#8217;t the facts that shape our lives &#8212; it&#8217;s our Stories.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Victoria Castle, <em>The Trance of Scarcity, <\/em>p. 44-46<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Although we may be beginning to understand that our Story is just a Story and not the Truth, it still can feel a little risky to be tampering with it.\u00c2\u00a0 Adaptive beings that we are, we&#8217;ve figured out how to tolerate the limiting story.\u00c2\u00a0 We know our way around that territory, and we know what [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35,9,34,23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-659","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-growth","category-life","category-story","category-truth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/659","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=659"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/659\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=659"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=659"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=659"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}