{"id":70,"date":"2007-09-12T08:59:10","date_gmt":"2007-09-12T12:59:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2007\/09\/12\/healthy-detachment\/"},"modified":"2007-09-12T08:59:10","modified_gmt":"2007-09-12T12:59:10","slug":"healthy-detachment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=70","title":{"rendered":"Healthy Detachment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Ideally, detachment is releasing, or detaching from, a person or problem <em>in love&#8230;.<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0 Detachment is based on the premises that each person is responsible for himself, that we can&#8217;t solve problems that aren&#8217;t ours to solve, and that worrying doesn&#8217;t help.\u00c2\u00a0 We adopt a policy of keeping our hands off other people&#8217;s responsibilities and tend to our own instead.\u00c2\u00a0 If people have created some disasters for themselves, we allow them to face their own proverbial music.\u00c2\u00a0 We allow people to be who they are.\u00c2\u00a0 we give them the freedom to be responsible and to grow.\u00c2\u00a0 And we give ourselves the same freedom.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Melody Beattie, <em>Codependent No More<\/em>, p. 56<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Ideally, detachment is releasing, or detaching from, a person or problem in love&#8230;.\u00c2\u00a0 Detachment is based on the premises that each person is responsible for himself, that we can&#8217;t solve problems that aren&#8217;t ours to solve, and that worrying doesn&#8217;t help.\u00c2\u00a0 We adopt a policy of keeping our hands off other people&#8217;s responsibilities and tend [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-70","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-letting-go"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=70"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=70"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=70"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=70"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}