{"id":787,"date":"2009-05-23T22:58:15","date_gmt":"2009-05-24T02:58:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2009\/05\/23\/needing-people\/"},"modified":"2009-05-23T22:58:15","modified_gmt":"2009-05-24T02:58:15","slug":"needing-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=787","title":{"rendered":"Needing People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How do you know when you don&#8217;t need people?  When they&#8217;re not in your life.  How do you know when you do need them?  When they <em>are<\/em> in your life.  You can&#8217;t control the comings and goings of the people you care for.  What you <em>can<\/em> do is have a good life whether they come or go.  You can invite them, and they come or not, and whatever the result is, that&#8217;s what you need.  Reality is the proof of it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Byron Katie, <em>I Need Your Love &#8212; Is That True?<\/em> p. 189<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How do you know when you don&#8217;t need people? When they&#8217;re not in your life. How do you know when you do need them? When they are in your life. You can&#8217;t control the comings and goings of the people you care for. What you can do is have a good life whether they come [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-787","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-letting-go","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/787","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=787"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/787\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=787"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=787"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=787"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}