{"id":792,"date":"2009-05-29T20:34:39","date_gmt":"2009-05-30T00:34:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/2009\/05\/29\/trust\/"},"modified":"2009-05-29T20:34:39","modified_gmt":"2009-05-30T00:34:39","slug":"trust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/?p=792","title":{"rendered":"Trust"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To love others without feeling the need to trap or control them requires trust that your needs will all be met, withor without the other person&#8217;s cooperation.  You must be absolutely sure that loving connection can encompass any level of difference without disappearing.  <em>You don&#8217;t have to trust the other person.  You must only trust that your needs will be met no matter what that person may do.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Martha Beck, <em>Steering by Starlight, <\/em>p. 198<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To love others without feeling the need to trap or control them requires trust that your needs will all be met, withor without the other person&#8217;s cooperation. You must be absolutely sure that loving connection can encompass any level of difference without disappearing. You don&#8217;t have to trust the other person. You must only trust [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,15,27,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-792","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-letting-go","category-love","category-relationships","category-trust"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/792","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=792"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/792\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=792"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=792"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=792"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}