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“First love; then do what you do.\u00c2\u00a0 First choose peace; then say what you say.\u00c2\u00a0 Asking, ‘What should I do?’\u00c2\u00a0 ‘What should I say?’ really means, ‘How do I get the outcome I want?’\u00c2\u00a0 ‘How do I control this person?’\u00c2\u00a0 Seldom are we confused if we make peace and mental wholeness our goal.”<\/p>\n

— Hugh Prather, The Little Book of Letting Go,<\/em> p. 50-51<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“First love; then do what you do.\u00c2\u00a0 First choose peace; then say what you say.\u00c2\u00a0 Asking, ‘What should I do?’\u00c2\u00a0 ‘What should I say?’ really means, ‘How do I get the outcome I want?’\u00c2\u00a0 ‘How do I control this person?’\u00c2\u00a0 Seldom are we confused if we make peace and mental wholeness our goal.” — Hugh […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,15,22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-92","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-letting-go","category-love","category-peace"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=92"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=92"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=92"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sonderbooks.com\/sonderquotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=92"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}