Review posted October 13, 2016.
Alfred A. Knopf, New York, 2015. 135 pages.
I love quotations, as anyone knows who's stumbled across my Sonderquotes blog. On top of that, Cheryl Strayed has already gotten many quotes on Sonderquotes from when I read her book Tiny Beautiful Things.
But you might not be aware that I've collected quotations since I was in high school. I've got a little notebook that holds index cards on which I'd write out quotes. So I was charmed by this story that opens Brave Enough:
At age twelve, when I came upon a sentence on page two hundred and something of Madeleine L'Engle's novel A Ring of Endless Light, I was so taken by it I had to stop reading. "Maybe you have to know the darkness before you can appreciate the light," I scrawled in semipermanent marker on the inside of my forearm, where it stayed for the better part of a week (and in my mind for the better part of my life).
I've been a quote collector ever since.
I so agree with this part:
I think of quotes as mini-instruction manuals for the soul. It's my appreciation of their very usefulness that compelled me to put together this book. Not because I believe in my own sagacity, but because I believe in the power of words to help us reset our intentions, clarify our thoughts, and create a counternarrative to the voice of doubt many of us have murmuring in our heads -- the one that says You can't, you won't, you shouldn't have. Quotes, at their core, almost always shout Yes!
This aims to be a book of yes.
And I start with a great big Yes to this at the end of the Introduction:
The best quotes don’t speak to one particular truth, but rather to universal truths that resonate — across time, culture, gender, generation, and situation — in our own hears and minds. They guide, motivate, validate, challenge, and comfort us in our own lives. They reiterate what we’ve figured out and remind us how much there is yet to learn. Pithily and succinctly, they lift us momentarily out of the confused and conflicted human muddle. Most of all, they tell us we’re not alone. Their existence is proof that others have questioned, grappled with, and come to know the same truths we question and grapple with, too.
There you have it. I went through this book one page per day, pausing to put especially good quotes into Sonderquotes.
This book contains lots of yes.