Most of all, I write because of the joy it creates. Writing creates connections and magic and certain kinds of permanent bliss. I can write myself in and out of moods and experiences, and create new places to live in my mind. It's kind of like pole vaulting with a pen.

Last night I ate a lot of ice cream after dinner and then didn't get much sleep from the caffeine in the chocolate. I could blame not writing on that too.

Who can I blame for blaming?

I've learned that literally anything can be used as a reason "not to write" and that these choices are mostly habitual and fear-based and can be changed.

We forget that writing is fun and rewarding, or become convinced that it isn't and load it up with all sorts of reasons why we can't or don't do it. We actually think so much about why we aren't writing, that we forget how to use our energy to actually write.

This book will remind you.

I think of being human as a kind of writing incubator. You are your own hatching station.

Reading is most often a source of great joy, which fills wells, cells and provides fuel for our imagination.

There is no right or good time to write. There are always days that will be easier or more perplexing than others, but really it's all just hilarious practicing. I call it hilarious because it's subject to what life gives and brings us, and that is just so funny and variable.

If you take time to write every day, it will move like a river or the ocean. I appreciate but do not depend on the moments of days or even days where writing flows smoothly. Sometimes it is stagnant, then rushing, perhaps dripping for long stretches of time.

Now I hilariously practice writing daily, and generally like how it feels. I've surrendered to being a writer (one who writes) and living that way. Now it's your turn too! Get yourself a big juicy pen and some thirsty paper.