Epic France Trip – Traditional Crossing of the Bay at Mont Saint-Michel – Day 5

This was it! The big day I was going to fulfill the dream! And walk across the bay of Mont Saint-Michel to the island – and back!

Here we go:

[Note: This was written that evening in my hotel room. I’m adding in pictures after I got back. I’ll distribute pictures through the text.]

I probably should have taken note of how often the tour company emphasized the distance – 7 kilometers – one way! And I should have considered that I already had blisters on the bottoms of my feet. And I definitely should have put sunscreen on my feet after I took off the shoes and socks I wore to drive to the meeting place!

I’ll be honest – I could not keep up. The mud felt better on my feet than hard sand waves – but in a lot of places, there were rocks under six inches of squooshy mud, which did hurt those blisters. And it was a lot more work to scrunch through knee-high mud than even to wade through rivers that went up to my thighs. Bottom line, the guide walked fast.

Selfishly, I was glad that there were three stragglers – a group with a little dog – who were as far behind me as I was behind the main group – so I didn’t feel quite as bad about not keeping up. At one point, the guide did go back for the lady having trouble in the mud and gave her a hand. But it wasn’t like you could get lost in the bay. I did worry about if I fell over in the mud or in a river, if I’d get help on time. Though it would have been nice to walk with friends who’d give you a hand in tough spots, I was kind of glad that I hadn’t dragged anyone else on an adventure that ended up being a strenuous workout.

There was a nice family – a husband and wife and daughter – who kindly summarized in English what the guide said at the stops. For all the French CDs I listened to, my French fled when I got here – but French people invariably speak much better English than my French, and have been very kind.

We walked very close to the island of Tombelaine in the middle of the bay.

By this time, I realized the tops of my feet were getting sunburned. (It’s a bad thing if I notice that while still in the sun!) So I tried to stand with my feet in the shade of my legs when we stopped for the guide to talk. But I still didn’t think to pull out the sunscreen in my bag and apply it!

It did feel amazing to be there in the middle of the bay.

I am glad I did the whole crossing of the bay. I didn’t know it without doing both, but the High Tides Tour would have been enough.

If anybody reading this ever visits Mont Saint-Michel, do one of the tours that takes you into the bay. They’re totally worth it!

But let me compare the two tours I did in case you only have time for one:

The High Tides tour is not only shorter than the Traditional Crossing (2 hours instead of 6 hours) – it also goes at a more leisurely pace. It’s more of a Wonder-filled Stroll, whereas the Traditional Crossing is more of a Goal-oriented Workout (get to the other side!). We also stopped more frequently on the High Tides tour.

Both tours played in quicksand (so VERY cool – nothing like the quicksand that terrified me on Gilligan’s Island!), but experiencing the tide come sweeping in on the High Tides tour is just incredible.

As of a week ago, I’m 62 years old. So my stamina may not be what it once was, and I may be in denial about that. I also have short legs and had blistered feet, so besides taking 296 pictures, that’s my excuse for not keeping up. I did make it the whole way there and back.

We had a bit more than a half-hour break at Mont Saint-Michel to rest and eat a snack.

Even though looking back, I realize it would have been much more prudent to settle for the High Tides Tour – especially once I realized I had blisters on my feet – I still can’t help but be glad I did it! The High Tides Tour was a thing of wonder and joy. The Traditional Crossing was a really hard thing across really interesting sand and rivers and rocks and mud – and I’m proud to have done it!

This is how far the stragglers were behind me. But I was that far behind the main group:

I’m pretty sure the water was deeper on the way back.

Now, on the High Tides Tour, I wore neoprene footies to protect my feet. But it got me wondering what the mud would actually feel like. I wanted a more visceral experience. Yeah, I probably should have reversed that and gone barefoot on the short walk. My blisters did burst, and I lost a big flap of skin on my right big toe. But what turned out to be even worse was that I put on sunscreen back at the hotel before I left – when I was wearing shoes. The tops of my feet got a vicious sunburn. Makes me really really glad I put on sunscreen everywhere else!

But – it is really hard to walk! I may be doing more modifications of my plans for the rest of the trip.

Added later: That was a bad sunburn. Second-degree, complete with blisters, was very painful on my trip and took three weeks to heal – but still – it was totally worth it!

I wrote the above that night when I was exhausted and had sore feet. A month later, when inserting the pictures, I think of it as an awesome experience that I will remember the rest of my life.

Epic France Trip – Parc Botanique de Haut Bretagne – Day 4

Friday, June 19, was my fourth day in France. I didn’t realize it was Juneteenth until I turned on my computer and the google background was the Museum of African American History.

When you go on vacation, you have to make choices. I really really like to make those choices ahead of time.

Today my plan was to go to Pointe du Grouin.

I read about it in a guidebook and looked it up on Google. It was almost an hour drive from my hotel, and it wasn’t real clear how far I’d have to walk. Another friend said I really should see St. Malo. That it’s amazing. And the guidebooks concur. But it’s even further past Pointe du Grouin. So my plan had been to go to Pointe du Grouin first, then St. Malo, then back.

But – I still had blisters on the bottoms of my feet. And I couldn’t get a straight answer from google how close to Pointe du Grouin I could even park. Also, my adventures the day before had made me less excited about driving on small roads through towns. An hour drive one-way sounded like a lot.

So – I grabbed a brochure at my hotel for Parc Botanique de Haut Bretagne. I think I’d briefly looked at it before my trip when I was looking for gardens – and then had decided I’d focus on the coast. Well, when I looked it up on Google yesterday, it was less than 30 minutes away, and mostly on the Autoroute.

It’s always hard for me to change plans. But even with sore feet, walking around gardens sounded like a more relaxing way to spend the day than hiking a nebulous length hike and then trying to figure out where in a city I could park and walk around.

Now, I do think it took me longer than 30 minutes to get there, and that my GPS was up to more nebulous redirects without telling me. Because I got to thinking about roundabouts on the way to the Parc – and then there were absolutely none on the way back. And quite a few times the British lady GPS voice said “Please,” which I think is what she does when I have been getting directions wrong, instead of saying, “I’m begging you! Take the third exit!”

The Botanic Park was just gorgeous. Various gardens, artfully arranged. I went kind of haphazardly at first, looking for the Tea Room, which I eventually found – but it was closed. So I went back to the restaurant at the entrance and had a small salad and water. (Later on, the Tea Room was open, but I wasn’t hungry.)

And it turned out to be a Castle! Castle #178 on my personal Castle Count.

During lunch, I read over the park brochure they’d given me in English. It turned out they had a marked route they recommend as a circuit of the park, so I followed that afterward and only got lost a couple times. But it was a lovely place to get lost in. I don’t think most of the blooms were exactly in season, but there was enough blooming all at once to be wonderful.

This warning in the bamboo grove of 7 years bad luck made me laugh when I saw someone had ignored it.

It was all so peaceful.

I especially loved the Japanese gardens with bridges and statues and winding paths.

Oh, and I discovered reading the brochure that there was a Minotaur statue at the heart of the maze I’d briefly explored – so of course I had to try again.

I spent a couple more hours after lunch, took less time getting back to the hotel (why I strongly suspect I’d missed a turn and gotten a scenic tour on the way there), and got back around 4 pm.

So today’s pictures are mainly of flowers. Lots and lots of flowers.

At 6 pm, I did a little walking on the path across from the hotel, to see if I could make it to the bay. (It’s very close.) But the first path dead ended, and the second path had a gate. It said be sure to re-close the gate because of sheep. And even though I’d seen other people on this path, by that time I admitted I’d walked enough today, and I went back to the hotel.

Looking back at the hotel:

There’s a part of me that doesn’t like changing plans. This means I will most likely never see Pointe du Grouin or St Malo. When you’re on vacation, you have to make choices, and making choices – with permanent consequences – is tough.

But you know what I’m telling myself? It’s totally okay to change plans. It’s okay to not see some wonderful things in this area. And if I’m not disappointed, nobody will be. I had an incredibly beautiful day, walking among flowers.

Epic France Trip – Mont Saint-Michel and the Scriptorial – Day 3

Thursday, June 18, was my third day in France.

I took the picture above from the grounds of my hotel in the morning. More than any other, with the sheep in the foreground and the misty blue sky, this reminds me of the poster my housemate had when I was in grad school – that made me want to visit Mont Saint-Michel forever after. So it’s forty years later! I remember.

I’d done the AMAZING High Tides tour in the bay the night before. That was booked months in advance, so on Thursday I took my sweet time and set my own schedule and went to Mont Saint-Michel just as a regular tourist.

This time, I’m sorry to say, I took the shuttle bus across the bridge to the Mont. The bottoms of my feet were still sore from walking it the night before, and I knew I’d be doing lots of climbing to get to the Abbey.

And, yes, that’s how it went. I think of myself as pretty fit, but all this climbing I’m doing on this trip – stairs in my hotels and then to the top of Mont Saint-Michel to tour the Abbey – all that is doing me in. So I took my time and took it in stages. Taking pictures is actually a good excuse to stop and rest!

Viewing the Abbey reminded me of visiting castles in Germany – I liked that the tour led us through every part. (And yes! Mont Saint-Michel is Castle #177 on my personal castle count.) I bought a book to better understand (when I get home) what the different parts were and when they were built. But at the time, I enjoyed the amazing architecture and stunning views. When I started the tour, the bay was full of water. By the time I left, it was again revealing sand.

My favorite part was the Cloister.

Moving on to the Refectory:

This is Saint Aubert being told by the archangel Michael to build the abbey. He didn’t listen the first time, so Michael touched his head, leaving a hole in his skull.

They had lovely art displayed in some of the rooms.

This is in the Scriptorium:

When I finished the Abbey tour, I came down slowly along the ramparts – more amazing views. I stopped in at plenty of shops and spent a bundle on souvenirs – two t-shirts, several bookmarks (I can always use those!), a tourist book in English, some sweets, a couple blank books (couldn’t decide which one I liked best), and some magnets. I probably spent more than I “should” – except who says? They will make me smile because they make me think of an amazing visit. I did resist the puzzles, since I already own two that depict Mont Saint-Michel.

By now it was early afternoon, and I decided to finish my day at The Scriptorial in Avranches. It’s a museum about the manuscripts of Mont Saint-Michel. I’m afraid I wasn’t super impressed with the museum. First, it was trickier to get to than I’d thought – driving through towns rather than countryside. At one point I missed a turn on a roundabout. The GPS, with her cultured British voice, didn’t tell me I’d missed the exit – it just politely told me to take the fourth exit on the next roundabout – which pointed me back the way I’d come! The second time on the earlier roundabout, I realized that yes, it really did want me to take that tiny road up the hill that I’d thought was just a driveway.

The Scriptorial was a cool museum, and they did have an Audiotour in English – but the Audiotour wasn’t really complete (unless I missed some of the signs for when you were supposed to turn it on). It was about monks crafting medieval manuscripts, and maybe I simply wasn’t in the right mood for it, but it was a lot to take in with my poor French.

I saw later in my guidebook that it was a “short” walk to the Donjon and a panoramic view. I’d seen a sign and seen an old wall, but it was pointed uphill, and I’d definitely done enough climbing for one day. So I got back in my car (I’d taken a picture of where I’d parked it – which helped me remember where I’d parked it, anyway.) and went back to the hotel – for a 7:30 pm dinner reservation at the hotel restaurant.

The food at French restaurants feels too elegant for me. I loved the meal, but I will probably just settle for one meal at each hotel restaurant. Don’t cringe, but I brought some Kind bars to get me through if I would otherwise miss a meal. Anyway, that night I enjoyed a fancy Entree, then a steak, then ice cream for dessert – all with crusty bread to go with it.

Before I went to bed, I discovered the Rolladen at the windows, so I wasn’t quite as hot that night. But I’m glad I’ll be moving on before the temperature really takes a hike!

Epic France Trip – High Tides at Mont Saint-Michel! – Day 2

Day 2 of my 2026 trip to France began with a hotel breakfast at the Château Corneille. Lovely. I was ready to drive three hours to my hotel near Mont Saint-Michel. Their check-in time was 2:00, so I wasn’t in a hurry. I packed up my stuff and even had a quiet time before setting out.

Side note: I’m kind of proud of how I organized my packing. I’m staying one night at the first place, four nights at the next place, then three nights, then two nights. Well, I bought a set of vacuum bags for traveling. Okay, originally I got some off a Facebook ad, but they are too big for my little carry-ons. So I got a cheap set with multiple sizes on Amazon – and a portable vacuum pump that’s USB-powered. (That part’s important!) The two smallest sizes work great. I packed one set of clothes in one bag, then four sets, three, and two. I’ve got one extra bag for my nightwear and a few spare items.

Another side note: I brought an extra pair of shorts, and wish I’d brought more. The weather has betrayed me. A few days before my trip the forecast said the hottest the weather would get on my trip was low 80s. Well, a few days in – and now the forecast says it’s going to pass 100! Yikes! (Oh good. I just checked, and my next hotel – where I’ll be for the hottest days – has air conditioning. The first two have not.)

Anyway, Wednesday morning, I put the set of clothes that I’d worn on the airplane in the bag I’d emptied with clothes for the second day’s trip. Vacuumed it back up and repacked. Next stop, I opened the four-sets container.

I was more accustomed to driving the Autoroute on the second day. Didn’t linger behind trucks at slower speeds. It helped that the first Autoroute I traveled on for about the first hour had three lanes, so I could hang out in the middle lane and get used to driving fast. Most Autoroutes in Paris have a speed limit of 130 kilometers per hour. That’s 80.78 miles per hour. (I just checked. I’d been thinking 65!) So it’s much, much more like driving on the Autobahn than it is driving in the U.S. Good thing I have lots of experience driving on the Autobahn! (So much so that I remember seeing the speed limit in Luxembourg was 120 kph, and I knew I’d really have to be careful to keep from speeding.) There are large portions of the Autobahn where the speed limit is 130 kph, so this wasn’t a surprise.

But remember, my car beeps at me every time I start speeding, including when I didn’t notice that the speed limit just got reduced. So I was pretty good at keeping to the speed limit. I stopped at a rest area at about exactly halfway and ate the second half of the enormous sandwich I’d bought in Giverny.

Okay, that’s the boring part. I checked in at 2:00 pm at Manoir de la Roche Torin. Settled in. Was a little disappointed I don’t have a view of Mont Saint-Michel. I’m guessing the rooms with the view were already booked when I made my reservation, so I didn’t realize I was missing out. There’s no elevator, and I was up two flights of stairs. After two trips with my two small suitcases plus other stuff, I was HOT. And the room was hot. On a cool night. The second night, just before going to bed, I realized the window has Rolladen! (Heavy German shutters). So I slept the second night with the Rolladen cracked to let in air but no bugs, and again during the day when I was out and about so the sun wouldn’t heat up the room. But I’m glad the next place has air conditioning.

The hotel grounds did have a view of Mont Saint-Michel, though.

Then – I drove to the parking for Mont Saint-Michel. About 20 minutes away. I had a ticket to do the High Tides Tour down in the Bay starting at 6:15 and lasting to 8:30.

I parked in lot 11C. I walked all the way across the footbridge to Mont St. Michel, taking pictures all the way! It took close to an hour from the lot.

Once I arrived, I didn’t have a lot of time to browse and was worried about finding the meeting place, but I walked out on the sand a little, climbed on the ramparts a little, and enjoyed being there. I’d scorned the people who took the shuttle bus to the Mont, but the bottoms of my feet were already hurting.

I did find the meeting place, and a nice lady from Chemins de la Baie took about fifteen of us in hand. She led us around the bay and talked about the tides. She did speak English, but the tour was in French. But she used her hands to talk, and I got a good idea of what was going on. Plus I was pretty busy taking pictures!

One of the coolest things was experiencing quicksand and learning how to get out of it. If you’re in as far as your ankles, use a circular motion to loosen the sound around your foot. But if it’s deeper, and you’re up to your thighs (I did NOT try this), climb one leg at a time, using your knees.

The tour lasted a couple hours, and we walked through little streams and in different consistencies of sand and mud. There was one place with lots of quicksand that we all got the earth making waves! Quicksand reminds me of cornstarch-and-water. If you push on it directly, it feels firm – but then turns to goo.

She had told us that the “Grand Maree” in September is a much bigger tide. And just when I thought that maybe I’d misunderstood and this was a safe low-tide tour to talk about the tides – then all the various groups we’d seen walking around the bay gathered in a particular place. We fifteen lined up facing the water. It was ankle deep when we lined up. And then, suddenly, the tide came up. A wave came that was up past my knees. The bottoms of my shorts got wet. I didn’t keep standing there – I didn’t want my camera to get wet. I walked to sand I could see that was still dry.

But oh my goodness, it was AMAZING!!!

It was sudden and fast. And the bay began filling up. Before we left, the guide told me to watch for the two sides of the water coming around the Mont and they’d meet under the footbridge. Sure enough, by the time I finished crossing the footbridge, it was all water under the bridge.

And then was the long walk back to the parking lot. I still scorned the shuttle bus, still glowing from the amazing experience.

I remembered 11C. It took a little work to find the parking lots, but when I got there, I remembered coming that way.

And my car was not there.

We’re talking at least 9:00 at night by now, but it was not dark. I looked at what I thought were all the cars in lots 9, 10, 11, and 12 – which were all on the same side of the path. There were not many cars left, so this wasn’t too hard. I couldn’t find my car. What was I going to do? I checked lots 7 and 8. Definitely not where I parked. I checked lots 9, 10, 11, and 12 again. What was I going to do? How could I get back to my hotel?

Then two ladies with a little girl (possibly three generations of one family) walked into the lot. I asked if they spoke English (They said “A little” – Ha! They were really good.) And I said I needed help and couldn’t find my car. We looked at the four parking lots. The older lady looked at my rental car tag to get the model and the license plate. They were going to drive around the big lots and tell me if they found it.

And then – they found it, right across from their car.

Here’s the thing: Lots 9, 10, 11, and 12 were all in two parts, with a hedge between the parts. They were lettered A, B, C, and D on each part, with nothing to say which side of the hedge you parked on. So – It turned out I’d only checked half of lots 9, 10, 11, and 12.

I was SO relieved! And it turns out there are nice people all over the world. I did feel like an idiot. And the grandma lectured me kindly to always take a picture of where I park. But the little girl waved to me, and I was just so thankful I did NOT have to deal with a stolen rental car!

I got back to the hotel around 10:00 – and that’s why I didn’t post pictures that day. But I was treated to a beautiful sunset and went to bed with a sense of awe.

Epic France Trip – Musée des Impressionnismes – Day 1

I’m in France!

I write this having made it to my first hotel, the Château Corneille. [It’s more than 100 years old! It has a name! I’m calling it my Castle #176. It’s not fortified, so more of a palace than most castles in my Castle Count, but it’s good enough for this American!]

I’m not sure if I’ll get around to actually posting this and adding pictures while on the road. But I thought that writing the text while it’s fresh, would be good. [Edited to add: These posts were written during the trip, but I’m adding in pictures and posting later.]

My flight yesterday went really smoothly. I’d decided to give in and download the United app. I’d purchased the tickets with miles – had to purchase additional miles, but it was still cheaper – and that came with an included checked bag. I’ve resisted the trend of checking in before you even get to the airport – what if you don’t make it? But I gave in and checked in and checked my bag – and everything went super quickly from there. Dropped off my bag at the curb and then headed to the gate. That is a couple miles away at Dulles, but I still got there with almost two hours to spare. Which is all good.

There were some glitches on the plane. Turns out, wearing both a mask and hearing aids isn’t a great idea. I’d take the mask off one ear to get a drink or something – and my hearing aids would come off. I didn’t wear the mask the whole flight, but at least in the busy coming and going parts. Then the new travel pillow I got didn’t work out too great. The good side – I was very well cushioned, and I did have a window seat. But it was almost too big and I was drooping inside the pillow. But the scary part – I leaned against the window to start – and got vicious pain in my neck exactly where my right vertebral artery dissection happened.

This is scary because fifteen years ago I had a stroke caused by a right vertebral artery dissection – that happened when I slept on a plane. That time, I didn’t have a neck pillow at all, so I’d always blamed it on that and that we hit turbulence while I was sleeping. So to get some bad pain in my neck just from leaning that way on a plane – that was scary. And it continued long enough for me to worry.

But the good news is that I started leaning the other way and eventually, at least after I stopped trying to sleep, the pain went away. I didn’t get much sleep, though, but I did get some rest. And I did get some good reading done. I’m reading Old Bones, by Aaron Elkins – a mystery set at Mont St-Michel, that a friend told me about. Almost finished it on the plane. And hearing aids are fantastic for listening to an audiobook on the plane, so I did that when I needed to watch what was happening and while I was eating. I discovered this evening that hearing aids are also great for dining alone and listening to an audiobook. I’ve been known to bring a physical book when dining alone – this is much subtler.

It did turn out, though that the excitement of being in France, plus coffee on the plane, had me wide awake as we got off the plane, went through customs and I found the rental car office. I was in a different terminal than my reservation said (I booked it through the airline, why would they do that?) – but he had a car a little bit larger than what I’d reserved, so that worked out. (It’s still small.)

I landed at 7:30 am, so I was sitting in the rental car around 8:30. But it went really smoothly. In the garage, I hooked up my phone to it right away and chose “Android Auto” – and the directions are seamlessly integrated with the car, so I had a map on the dashboard and a highlight right behind the steering wheel telling me how much further before the next turn. I was happy that traffic was completely fine – I’d worried a little about rush hour – despite mostly being on roads with only two lanes on each side. I had an hour and a half drive to Giverny to the Impressionists Museum, but I took more like two hours. That might have been because my first time out with this car, I stayed in the slow lane behind a truck who almost led me all the way to Giverny. I figured I wasn’t in a hurry.

Early on, though, the car started beeping at me! It was very startling, and I didn’t want to look too hard at the dashboard to figure out what was going wrong. I didn’t see anything flashing that I was out of oil or gas or had a flat tire, anyway.

It took me a while – after I noticed that the current speed limit was displayed behind the steering wheel, and, yes, changed when I passed a sign that changed it – to realize that the beeping was when I exceeded the speed limit! Okay, it was really annoying, but ultimately I’m thankful for it. Because if there’s one thing I don’t want to do in a foreign country, it’s get pulled over for speeding. However, later when the roads changed to two-lane roads, with one in each direction, some cars behind me seemed kind of impatient when I scrupulously followed the speed limit. I don’t think their cars were beeping at them.

But oh my goodness, the countryside was beautiful! It made me feel like I was in a painting. And that got me thinking: Did I feel like I was in a painting because I’ve seen so many of Monet’s paintings? Or was Monet compelled to paint it because it is a quintessential painting-worthy landscape? Or both? And then I wondered, if Monet had lived during the time of color photography, would he have been as compelled to paint? I mean, this beauty begs to be captured. Would he have chosen a different method for capturing it in a different time?

Anyway, I arrived in Giverny and the GPS was asking me to go down some sketchy roads, so I just parked at a great big lot designed for tourists and joined the other tourists walking into town. And Giverny is in bloom! Walking through it was a treat. I had been envious of a Facebook friend who visited Giverny during tulip time, and I still think that would be amazing – but it is still amazing.

And then the museum! I purchased an audiotour and listened to every single stop (seventeen of them) and delighted that I didn’t have anyone with me who would get impatient with me. And read every sign by every painting. It’s not a big museum, so I could do all that in a couple hours. Right now, they’re featuring an exhibit about Monet in Giverny before his Water Lilies paintings. It told about how he moved to Giverny, became more successful, and then was able to buy a home and make the garden what he wanted it to be. The paintings were mostly of landscapes around Giverny, and they were truly wonderful.

I also walked in the Museum Gardens after that. They’ve got a haystack in a field with poppies in front of it and a big hill behind it – and I felt like I’d stepped into one of the paintings I’d just seen.

Then I grabbed a sandwich and iced tea at a café. By the way, the gray morning had turned into an incredibly lovely day with blue skies and white, puffy clouds and gentle breezes. I was starting to get tired after that, so it was good I only had another half-hour to drive to my hotel.

And my hotel is a castle! Well, it’s more of a manor, but by my old criteria – It’s more than 100 years old and has a name – I’m going to count it as the 176th castle I’ve touched – Château Corneille.

They did let me check in a tiny bit early. Then I took a nap for a couple hours and even woke up before the alarm I’d set went off. Next up was dinner in the hotel restaurant. And oh my goodness – It was a three-course meal, and each course was exquisite. I ate outside, and it was idyllic – breezes blowing and birds enthusiastically singing. (Had I mentioned? Giverny was loud with happy birds, too. I think it’s all the flowers.)

Now, some swarms of gnats showed up, and a man eating near me started smoking. But those blew over and it was lovely. I did listen to my (wonderful) audiobook after I’d soaked up all that birdsong.

So that was my first day in France for 2026. It’s now 9:25 pm and the sun isn’t nearly down. So this makes for a nice time to reflect on the day and simply be thankful.

Tomorrow: Mont Saint-Michel!

A Psalm of Praise

Is anyone happy?
Let them sing songs of praise.

— James 5:13

It’s happening! I’ve almost finished making all twelve pages for my website, PrayingwiththePsalmists.com!

This is a website to go with my not-yet-published book, Praying with the Psalmists, with one page for each chapter. But the goal of the book is to get people experiencing the joy of writing their own psalms. And I think you can pick up tips from the website even if you haven’t read the book. I’ve got a page for each of the ten types of Psalms in the Bible, so on each page I link to this blog so you can see examples I’ve written, and use the comments to post your own examples when you try it out. (It’s much easier to use the moderation in WordPress for comments, plus with blog posts I can continue to add examples.)

But I was all set to post the page for Psalms of Praise – only to discover I haven’t posted any such example psalms yet.

I was honestly surprised to discover this. But when I looked back over my Praying with the Psalmists category, it turned out that every time I’d thought about writing an example psalm of Praise, it turned into a Thanksgiving psalm or a Salvation History psalm or a Creation hymn or a Blessing psalm. The fact is that all the types of Psalm include praise, but the ones I put into the category of Psalms of Praise (Psalms 29, 47, 48, 92, 93, 97, 98, 100, 103, 113, 117, 145, 147, 149, and 150) are the ones I was left with, where the whole point is Praise.

My very favorite Psalm, Psalm 103, is a Psalm of Praise. (Here’s the story of why it’s my favorite.)

I think part of me is leery of praising too loudly when my life is going great and my dreams are coming true – when there are serious issues in the world around me. I don’t want to fall into hash tag #blessed and casually imply that if you were spiritual like me, you’d have a great life, too. Or maybe it’s an aspect of “foreboding joy” that Brene Brown talks about. Sometimes we don’t dare relish our joys, because we’re afraid they’ll stop.

But, on the other hand, there’s that verse in James I quoted above. I am happy! God is granting me some desires of my heart! If this is not a good time to write a psalm of Praise, what is?

Psalms of Praise, unlike Thanksgiving Psalms, are more about God’s character and attributes than specific things God has done. But I’m especially happy today because I recently got an agent for that book I mentioned, Praying with the Psalmists – and this week an editor asked to see the full manuscript! What’s more, the editor who asked edited not one but two of my Sonderbooks Stand-outs in Christian Nonfiction from last year!

As if that weren’t enough, I’m going on a dream vacation to France in about a week, to see Mont Saint-Michel and Giverny, places I’ve always wanted to see but we never quite got to when I lived in Europe. (You will hear about my trip on this blog, I promise!) And I still love my job and have dear friends around me, and my small group has a habit of noticing joys – and they’re just piling up!

So yes, this is a good time to write an example psalm of Praise.

The key concepts found in the Psalms of Praise in general (not every concept in every Psalm, but some of them in every Psalm) are:
Praise
Joy
Music
Majesty
Goodness
Faithfulness
Love

I’m honestly not sure where to start, so I’m going to play off my favorite, Psalm 103:

Praise the Lord, my soul;
all my inmost being, praise God’s holy name.
Praise the Lord, my soul,
and forget not all God’s benefits –
who redeems all my mistakes
and comforts all my sorrows,
who doesn’t give up on me,
who is faithful when I am faithless or flighty,
who fills my life with good things
and crowns me with love and compassion,
who pops joys into my life
until I can’t help but notice,
who blesses me with gifts
I never dreamed to ask for,
and grants above and beyond
the things I do ask for.

Father, my life hasn’t turned out
anything like I thought it would or should,
but through every detour,
You were faithful.
Through every hardship,
You compassionately pulled me through.

And now you’ve led me to
a vocation doing what you made me to do –
buying great books for children
to read freely,
singing your praises in the choir,
meeting with friends in a life group
to pray and study your Word,
even playing games with friends,
doing puzzles,
walking in nature,
traveling to beautiful places,
and even writing books.
Truly my cup overflows.

You let humans mess things up in this world –
yet you teach us and guide us,
you love us and walk with us.
Let us sing to you in grateful praise!
Praise the Lord!

Okay, the disclaimer: Part of the reason I write these example psalms is to show readers that they do not have to be very good! I don’t claim to be inspired by God, but sitting down to write them does me good and lifts my spirits – and that’s what I want for you.

Try it yourself! Paste a psalm of Praise into the comments.

A Salvation History Psalm for Memorial Day

I only have two more types of Psalms to cover on my prayingwiththepsalmists.com website!

One of those types is Salvation History Psalms, so I want to write another example. [You have to click on the Examples link to go from a page on prayingwiththepsalmists.com to see example psalms, but I’m hoping the number of examples will continue to grow. I’m also hoping that more and more readers will post their own examples in the comments on this blog. I’m using the Sonderjourneys blog for comments rather than try to put them on the main webpage, because WordPress already has moderation and spam filters.]

Salvation History Psalms in the Bible go over God’s history with Israel and make application today. I’m currently looking at Psalm 78 in my personal quiet times, and the psalmist goes over the story of the Exodus and how God’s people kept letting God down, but God was patient with them and never gave up on them completely. And it winds up by praying that God will, once again, have mercy and help them.

In my previous Salvation History psalm examples, I’ve used my personal history with God. But today is Memorial Day, so it seems fitting to talk about what I know about the history of the United States. And we could use some help.

A Prayer for Our Nation

Father, hundreds of years ago, some of my ancestors
came across an ocean
to be able to worship you
in the way they thought was right.

They founded a nation on the principle
that all are created equal –
though our nation’s talk
was better than its walk.

Over the years, our nation
perpetrated injustices
against Native Americans
against African Americans
against Hispanics
against Asian Americans
against women
against anyone who wasn’t white and wealthy.

But over two hundred and fifty years,
people worked for justice and freedom.
We fought a Civil War and ended slavery –
at least for those who could stay out of prison.
We erected a statue proclaiming welcome
to the world’s tired and poor immigrants.
In a time of financial ruin,
we passed laws promising a New Deal
– giving hope to those in poverty.
We fought a war in Europe
to conquer fascism
and rescue folks wrongly and cruelly imprisoned.
We passed civil rights legislation
through the hard work of persistent activists.
People began to realize the evils of racism.
And then we extended more rights to same-sex couples,
rights they should have had all along.
We loosened immigration restrictions,
getting closer to the promise on the Statue of Liberty.
Immigrants made our country
stronger and prouder.

Lord God, we’re getting some things right,
but so many things wrong.
We want to be a land of the free,
but new laws are pulling back freedoms.
We want to be a welcoming place,
and instead secret police are arresting hard-working immigrants
who had wanted to become part of us.
We want this to be a land of freedom,
and instead tell trans people what bathroom they can use.

Almighty God, so much good has come out of America,
but also so much evil.
We pray on this Memorial Day
for peace – that more servicemembers will not join the fallen.
And we pray that this would again
or for the first time truly
be a land of welcome,
a land of freedom,
a land of justice for the oppressed.

May the greedy plans of the wicked
be frustrated and fail.
May the racist plans of the evil
fall apart under the light of the truth
that all, indeed, are created equal.

May you make this nation
grow closer to
living up to its promise.
And bless America
as a land of opportunity, equality,
justice, and freedom.

Blessings for Those We Love

At my church, our much-loved pastor is getting transferred, and her last Sunday is in a few weeks. So the choir director brought out a song we’re going to sing to her on her last Sunday.

I was blown away by this song, because it’s essentially a Blessing Psalm. I plan to memorize it and sing it in my heart for so many people I love, though the first one will be Pastor Gina.

Let me talk about Blessing Psalms for a moment. The ones in Psalms are Psalms 20, 67, 128, and 134, though there are other poems of blessing in other books of the Bible, such as the one the priests were to pray for the people. The blessings offered aren’t specific prayers, but they’re full of love and goodwill. Psalm 20 is my favorite, with passages like this:

May the LORD answer you when you are in distress;
may the name of the God of Jacob protect you….
May he give you the desire of your heart
and make all your plans succeed.
May we shout for joy over your victory
and lift up our banners in the name of our God.
May the LORD grant all your requests.

You’ll see how the song we’ll be singing fits right in with that. So instead of writing my own example psalm, here’s a Song of Blessing composed by a professional.

I brought the music home to copy the words. Of course, it hits your heart more deeply when sung.

A Blessing of Music

Words and Music by Joseph M. Martin

May your days be filled with music.
May your path be paved with song.
May the sounds of forever lift you up and keep you strong.
May your heart resound with laughter.
May your life be tuned for praise.
May the hymns of faith bring you hope.
May the rhythm of your life bring you joy.
May the harmony of friendship bring you love.
May the Maker bless and keep you.
May God’s music guide your ways.
May God’s gentle whisper always comfort you with grace.
May the voices of angels sing you peace.
Amen

I am going to have trouble singing this without crying on the day – it will be sung with much love!

May you, reader, also receive this blessing of music.

A Thanksgiving Psalm for Wonderful News

TODAY I SIGNED WITH A LITERARY AGENCY FOR MY PSALMS BOOK!!!!

Just in case you’re wondering, I’m excited about this.

I wrote Praying with the Psalmists as my pandemic project. In the past, I’ve written two middle grade fantasy novels, one children’s nonfiction book, and one picture book, but never found a publisher for any of them, and I stopped trying back in 2018 when I got on the Newbery committee. That experience was amazing, but made me feel inadequate writing for children by the end of it, and besides that, I wanted to shift gears.

So I wrote a book about Psalms. The point of the book is to show people that you can use patterns from Psalms to deepen your own prayer life. And I feel passionately that laments – and complaining to God – are okay. In fact, there’s a type of Psalm that fits almost any human emotion – and in the book I demonstrate that by telling my own story, especially my difficult divorce.

I took my time with the book, and when I started co-leading a church small group, I brought the group through the manuscript. I think it’s just right for church small groups, because although my story gives a background – it’s a format for your own prayers and your own stories, and is a good vehicle for sharing with each other. I hope that people will try it out.

I’ve been trying to find an agent or a publisher for a few years now. As a librarian, I’ve seen a lot of terrible self-published books, so that’s slowed me down from going that route. Besides, I see and value the work that publishers do. There are good self-published books out there, but most don’t have nearly as wide a reach, and libraries rarely buy them. It’s okay if my book doesn’t get published – but I honestly do think that people can benefit from learning to write their own psalms. So I did want to give it a decent try.

And during the process, I learned that authors need to build their platform. So I decided not to wait until after the book is published to build a website for the book. I’ve made prayingwiththepsalmists.com – it’s a subset of my Sonderbooks website, but a simple redirect and registering the domain name give me a website for the book. I’ve got a page for each chapter of the book, giving the basics of writing each type of psalm. It’s missing my story to go with it, but each page has a link to example psalms I’ve posted on this blog. (I’ve finished all but four pages.) And I’m hoping that people will start posting their own examples (when they try it) in the comments. I’ve also made a free substack, Sondermusings, so people can subscribe to my Christian writing and hear about my book. (Substack has a good subscription system.)

I’m now to the point of daring to actually speak in person about it. In January, I did two sessions at my church’s women’s conference on writing laments, and people wrote some beautiful laments. And I’ve signed up to do an “experience” at Wild Goose Festival in September – though I don’t know if I’ll be selected.

Despite all that, I had some near misses but no acceptances from agents or publishers. Was getting discouraged. But a little over a year ago, author Maureen Wise found my website and asked me to review her book, said we sounded like kindred spirits. Well, fortunately, I loved her book and did review it. And she subscribed to Sondermusings. And long story short, she did a six-month internship at a literary agency, then a job search, and is now officially a literary agent with Metamorphosis Literary Agency, and as of today, she is representing my book!

So I am HAPPY about this!

And yes, I know that this doesn’t guarantee she’ll find a publisher for it. But I’ve got someone doing the hard work, someone who’s read my book and believes in me – and it just feels awfully good.

And I fully believe in celebrating every milestone.

And how do I celebrate when I’m feeling strong emotion? I write a psalm! A Thanksgiving psalm seems like the thing in this case.

And as soon as I thought that, I started minimizing my situation. Thanksgiving Psalms in the Bible are about someone in who’s in deep trouble, and they cry out to God and God saves them. Besides, I don’t want to imply that somehow God gave me this blessing because I’m so spiritual.

But then I was looking at today’s Facebook memories – and on this day precisely fourteen years ago, I signed the last legal paperwork from my divorce. (The divorce was done, but we had to file again to get him to fully comply with the agreement.) So signing a contract with a literary agency fourteen years later reminds me that, yes, I was in deep trouble at that time – and look how God has brought me through!

So after all that explanation, let me write a short Thanksgiving psalm:

Thanks for a Joyful Surprise

Father God, Lover of my Soul,
the God Who Sees,
thank you for the gift today
of a dream come true.

I actually signed with a literary agency!
This is something I’ve dreamed of
since long before I wrote this particular book.

And I think back to fourteen years ago,
and especially twenty years ago,
when my life was falling apart,
when I was heavily in debt,
when the vision I’d had of my future life
had evaporated like a phantom,
never to be.

Lord, I didn’t understand
how you could let my marriage fall apart.
I didn’t understand why you didn’t
give my husband some kind of Damascus Road experience,
make him see sense,
bring him back.

Yes, okay, I needed to learn a lot!
And in the years that followed,
you taught me,
ever so gently.
You showed me
that I was still lovable,
that I still had a future,
that I could still feel joy,
and I could take on new dreams.

And that big one? Getting published?
I’ve dreamed it so long,
I just thought it a fantasy.
Thank you for this joyful step in that direction.

Thank you that you never abandoned me
and have brought me into a spacious place.

***

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The Precious Gift of Life – A Wisdom Psalm

Teach us to number our days,
that we may gain a heart of wisdom.

— Psalm 90:12

I’ve been thinking about my mortality lately – and that calls for a wisdom psalm.

Wisdom Psalms in Scripture, like the one quoted above, like to look at the big picture and our place in it. When I try to write one, I like to think of them as Pep Talk Psalms, reminding me of what I know and believe. (Because I don’t like to claim to have wisdom – I don’t necessarily live out these things after all.)

I have many reasons to think about mortality, but instead of explaining first, I’ll try to put them in the example psalm. As always, I post these psalms I’ve written as encouragement to try writing psalms yourself. Check my website, prayingwiththepsalmists.com, for tips as to how to do this – and eventually my book, which I still hope to get published: Praying with the Psalmists: Ten Patterns to Deepen Your Prayers. (If you want to hear about progress on getting my book published, or just to follow my Christian writing, subscribe to my free substack, Sondermusings.)

And where I want to go with that is being thankful for the life I have. So that’s how I’m going to name my psalm.

The Precious Gift of Life

Creator who formed me in my mother’s womb,
Shepherd who has guided my life,
I’m thinking about mortality.

This year, I’m the same age my mother was – 61 –
when she had her heart attack.
She was never the same after that,
and we started seeing signs of the Alzheimer’s
that destroyed her brain
and took her life when she was 78
and had nothing left she could do –
not even smile.

Then in the Fall, my childhood friend,
in the same grade as me,
part of our foursome,
died of a stroke.
She’d had a past stroke,
so maybe it wasn’t a surprise –
but I’ve had a past stroke, too.

Next, the husband of a friend from church
died of cancer.
I saw in his obituary
that he was six months younger than me.

Then a college friend,
the roommate of my ex-husband,
precisely four days younger than me,
had a massive heart attack.
Yes, he survived, miraculously –
without even any damage to his heart.
But it was a near thing,
and, yes, a miracle.

And a few weeks ago,
my best friend’s husband,
whom I’ve known for the 44 years they’ve been married,
died of a heart attack,
and a miracle didn’t happen for him this time,
though he’d had miracles before.

With all of this,
I’m reminded that there are no guarantees.
We aren’t promised even the 70 years,
or 80 “if our strength endures”
mentioned in the Wisdom Psalm, Psalm 90.

But, Father, that reminds me
what a good life you’ve given me.
And my heart fills with thanks.

(I don’t know why anyone is granted more time
than anyone else –
but I do know that for all of us,
our time on this earth will someday end.)

I’ve loved deeply; I’ve been betrayed.
But you brought me through and beyond.
I’ve got an abundance of family
and two wonderful children,
turning out to be fine adults.
I’m so incredibly rich in my friends
who care about me
and who enrich my life.
I’ve got a job that feels like
exactly the right job for me.
I get to sing in the choir
and co-lead a small group.
I shine light on good books
with my website and serving on award committees.
I’ve even written a book
and a website about praying
using patterns from Psalms.

And simple joys!
I’ve gotten to travel
all over the U.S. and Europe.
I’ve got a lake out my window
and am easily delighted by flowers and birds
and yarn and books and games.

Whenever my life ends,
it’s been a heartily good one.
And you’ve promised that in heaven
we will be like you
and see you as you are
and our joys will be even deeper.

It’s not that I want this to happen soon!
I am enjoying this life so much.
But may I keep perspective,
and remember that people are important.
May I notice Joys
and spread joy to others.
May I love deeply
and let my friends and family know
how valued they are.

And thank you for the gift of each day.
Walk with me in it,
carry me close to your heart.
And help me to shine the light of your love
on the people you’ve blessed me to know.

***

I’d still love to see your example psalms in the comments! Want to try your own Wisdom psalm (Pep Talk psalm)?