“When reading the Bible, people commonly experience a special ‘word in the Word,’ in which a particular passage seems to apply to an individual situation in a new way…. This ‘quickening of the Word’ encourages us that God is near and deeply interested in the particular circumstances of our lives.”
— Richard J. Foster, Prayer:Â Finding the Heart’s True Home, p. 137
“Shame is a necessary motivator to help you act according to your values.
Guilt and shame are not punishments; they are motivators.
You don’t need a defense against shame, if you take it as it is designed:Â as motivation to change your behavior.”
— Steven Stosny, Compassion Power Boot Camp, September 28, 2007
“Ask God to help us think. Every morning, I ask Him to give me the right thought, word, or action. I ask Him to send His inspiration and guidance. I ask Him to help me solve my problems. I believe He does help. I know He does. But He expects me to do my part and think. Some days go better than others.”
— Melody Beattie, Codependent No More, p. 152