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10 Posts
Oct 4, 2007

Not a Communication Problem

Compassion, Core Value, Relationships 0

“It is nearly impossible to understand other people’s perspectives when you’re angry or resentful.  You never have a complete view of a negotiation, even when your part is factually right.…

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Oct 4, 2007

Getting Cooperation

Compassion, Core Value, Relationships 0

“When people feel valued, they cooperate, when they feel devalued, they either resist or submit with resentment.” — Steven Stosny, Compassion Power Boot Camp

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Oct 4, 2007

Your Choice

Compassion, Forgiveness 0

“Everything you resent, you could feel compassionate about.” — Steven Stosny, Compassion Power Boot Camp

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Oct 2, 2007

The Purpose of Guilt and Shame

Guidance, Healing, Letting Go 0

“Shame is a necessary motivator to help you act according to your values. Guilt and shame are not punishments; they are motivators. You don’t need a defense against shame, if…

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Oct 2, 2007

A Rule of Relationships

Letting Go, Marriage 0

“We like to cooperate, but hate to be controlled.” — Steven Stosny, Compassion Power Boot Camp, September 28, 2007

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Oct 1, 2007

True Power

Core Value, Healing 0

“Blame makes you powerless. “Responsibility gives you the power to make your life better…. “To grow and heal, you must remove the magnifying glass from others, and focus it exclusively…

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Sep 26, 2007

Incompatible Emotional States

Compassion, Forgiveness, Love 0

“It’s not possible to feel loving or worthy of love at the same time that you feel resentful or angry–they are incompatible emotional states; you can feel one and then…

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Sep 26, 2007

The Mirror of Love

Forgiveness, Love 0

“I’m convinced that we use resentment and anger to punish loved ones, not so much for their behavior as for the pain we feel from our reflections in the mirror…

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Sep 22, 2007

A Sad Defense Against Feelings of Inadequacy

Life, Love 0

“In the history of humankind, no one has ever felt more lovable by hurting someone he loves.” — Steven Stosny, You Don’t Have to Take It Anymore, p. 41

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Sep 22, 2007October 1, 2007

The Secret to Loving Adequately

Compassion, Healing, Love 0

“To love adequately, you have to tolerate feeling inadequate.” — Steven Stosny, You Don’t Have to Take It Anymore, p. 40

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