Hand in the Grievances
Dear God, I declare a day of amnesty in which I gratefully volunteer to hand in all my resentments and grievances to You. Please help me to handle well all…
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To Set Ourselves Free
The way I see it, we don’t forgive in order to be nice, to do what we should, to be good Christians, or even to be spiritual. We forgive so…
Grievances Have an Expiration Date.
Grievances don’t make you happy: Sometimes we hold on to grievances because we are afraid that our past was our best chance for happiness. However, you can’t continue to carry…
Moving in the Direction of Love
The purpose of your life is not to carry a grievance. With forgiveness, you can grieve and then ask love to help you use the past to create a future…
Love Doesn’t Hurt.
Until you realize that love doesn’t hurt, love will always appear to hurt you. That will be your story, anyway. If you are willing to let go of your story,…
Control
Control is a form of fear. When you are tempted to control the relationship, it’s because you’re afraid that you are unloveable and that you might lose someone’s love. Unfortunately,…
Loving Who They Are
Is this love or am I trying to change the person I love? Have you tried to change your partner recently? How did you get on? Were they suitably appreciative?…
Love or Sacrifice?
There are two types of sacrifice: unhealthy sacrifice and healthy sacrifice. One is based on fear and the other on love. Knowing the difference is a key to knowing how…
Expectations
Expectations are fear based. They are an effort to grab what you want instead of letting it come to you. The more afraid you are of not getting what you…
Healthy Dependency
Healthy dependency allows you to ask for help, to be open to inspiration, to cooperate with others, and not to try to do life by yourself. Unhealthy dependency arises when…