Apology energy will not only drain you, it will teach others that you are open to criticism and judgment. Apology energy will reinforce that you don’t deserve to be happy, wealthy, healthy, or successful but that you have to earn your way to make it acceptable to others….
You can eliminate apology energy by rewriting limiting beliefs that create conflict because you are happy, successful, or have ease in life….
To eliminate victim energy, be honest about the need to blame others for your lot in life because it’s easier than making different choices; this honesty will start you on the road to reclaiming your power….
Please avoid, at all costs, the tragedy of your apology energy colliding with victim energy. Your apology will simply justify a victim’s belief that life isn’t fair, and the person’s powerlessness will intensify your need to apologize….
— Christel Nani, Sacred Choices, p. 204-206