I encourage you to confidently expect, while not being attached to an outcome. Expect it, but then let it go. Yes, the money would be great, the job would be perfect, the relationship would be wonderful, but they in themselves are not what has value. It’s what they provide that we are really interested in — the sense of security or freedom, the experience of happiness and belonging. We can claim those states as our inner reality, with or without the associated tangibles. It’s the essence behind the form that really matters to us. And when we live in It Already Is, we are irresistible to the flow of abundance in the universe.
— Victoria Castle, The Trance of Scarcity, p. 120