Your Options
You have the choice to forgive or not to forgive, and no one can force you to do either. If you want to forgive your wife, no one can stop…
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Worth the Effort
I hope that you also can learn to be more forgiving of your partner. Doing this will be worth whatever effort you have to make to get there. Even if…
Smaller Annoyances
It is the smaller annoyances, and our negative responses to them, that kill happiness between partners. That criticism can quickly build into resentment…. It is our inability to let go…
The Love We Crave
Forgiving a specific wrong reduces the stress and hostility that stems from an unresolved hurt, but becoming a truly forgiving husband or wife creates a marriage that surpasses what you…
Forgiveness Is About the Present
Forgiveness is more about our present life than about our past…. In my own situation, I had realized that the heart of what I was feeling was an inability to…
Forgiveness is Good for your Body.
Research shows that learning to forgive or being a forgiving person helps you feel better physically. The reasons are simple. It is very stressful to be constantly at war with…
Forgiving for Your Own Sake
One of the great misconceptions about forgiveness is that it is the same as reconciliation. Reconciliation is deciding whether or not to talk to your lover again after an infidelity. …
Necessary for Healing
Forgiveness can wrap up the grief, but it does not prevent the inevitable and necessary suffering. When there is a serious injury or loss, there is no way to avoid…
An Essential Skill in a Successful Marriage
Being able to remain calm when your wishes are unfulfilled is an essential skill in a successful marriage. If you are honest with yourself, you will agree that not getting…
Forgiveness as Acceptance
The ability to remain at peace when you do not get what you want is forgiveness…. When you want something different from what you actually get, you are always in…