Standing in the Dark

“God is all right.  Therefore, why should we mind standing in the dark for a minute outside his window?  Of course we miss the inness.  But there is a bliss of its own in waiting.  What if the rain be falling, and the wind blowing?  What if we stand alone, or, more painful still, have some dear one beside us, sharing our outness?  What even if the window be not shining because of the curtains of impenetrable good drawn across it?  Let us think to ourselves, or say to our friend, ‘God is.  Jesus is not dead.  Nothing can be going wrong, however it may look to our hearts that are unfinished in childness.’

“Let us say to the Lord, ‘Jesus areyou loving the Father in there?  Then we out here will do his will, patiently waiting till he open the door.  We shall not mind the wind or the rain much’…

“In a word, let us be at peace, because peace is at the heart of things–peace and utter satisfaction between the Father and the Son — in which peace they call us to share, in which peace they promise that at length, when they have their good way with us, we shall share.”

— George MacDonald, Your Life in Christ, p. 51

Avoiding Manipulation

“When we give up something for someone we love, no matter how great the sacrifice, there can be no conditions.  What we do, we do because we will it, free of implications of future payment, or debt, or guilt.  Only in this way is sacrifice a healthy manifestation of love.”

— Leo Buscaglia, Born for Love, p. 119

Growing in Love

“To continue to grow in love is a joyous and mystical journey, full of new insight, excitement and surprise.  The eventual payoff, though it may not offer us all of the answers, is well worth the trip.”

— Leo Buscaglia, Born for Love, p. 118

Letting Go of Outcomes

“Although we can’t control even the tiniest ego or smallest event, we can control our decision to control.  We can let go and be free, or we can fight useless battles.  But we can’t do both.  Either our attention is on form or content, on appearance or substance.  By letting go of our desire to dominate outcomes, we don’t sacrifice anything real, but we do open our heart and mind to the experience of wholeness.”

— Hugh Prather, The Little Book of Letting Go, p. 112-113